“What do you want to be when you grow up?” It is easy to imagine the enthusiasm in the tiny voice as it exclaims: “Astronaut!”“Doctor!”“Firefighter!”“Teacher!”If a child gave any one of these responses, it would not be cause for shock. Each of these answers would be considered quite normal. Now, let's try this one on … Continue reading Where Have All The Mothers Gone?
Truths in life may be either pleasant or grating, but all must be submitted to, nonetheless. The following statements perfectly represent an example of one of life's truths that happens to be despised by many: "Marketing yourself is now an essential skill that can make the difference between failure and success." "It is crucial to … Continue reading Market Day
Take a deep breath, everyone. I realize that learning about the Altar of Parenthood in Part 5 was tough! Never fear! No more with the sacrificial offerings! In this part, being the conclusion of the Types of Moms series, I make only offerings of promise and hope to stressed-out and befuddled moms of every type! … Continue reading Types of Moms ~ Part 6: An Offering of Hope
It has been established in Part 4 that there is no clear winner in the battle between types of moms when it comes to having a ‘til-death-do-us-part marriage. Also, I clarified my reasoning as to why I have chosen to couple “lifetime marriage” with “life-fulfillment.” Now, with all of that behind us, it is time … Continue reading Types of Moms ~ Part 5: The Altar of Parenthood
You may have noticed that I have refused to exert any effort into discussing the “I Could Care Less” mom type; for example, those who neither work outside the home nor give their all at home with the kids, those who are downright lazy, or those who are neglectful of or abusive towards their children. … Continue reading Types of Moms ~ Part 4: Who Wins?
The previous post, Types of Moms ~ Part 2, discussed in detail the harsh realities that all working moms are faced with each and every day. In brief, working moms undoubtedly take on more of the unpaid labor of household management and childcare in a dual-income household, setting her up for burnout and an increase … Continue reading Types of Moms ~ Part 3: The “Work is My Passion,” the “My Kids Drive Me Crazy,” and the “Lover of Money and Status”
In Types of Moms ~ Part 1, the “All-In Gambler” type was discussed. In a nutshell, this is the mom that takes on the gargantuan task of being the central stabilizing pillar of support within the family unit. She accomplishes all of the unpaid child-rearing/default parent duties and household manager tasks that exist within the … Continue reading Types of Moms ~ Part 2: The “Just Trying to Make Ends Meet” and the “Bet-Hedger”
What is the best description of the mental state of a woman who chooses to focus on her household and family after having children, besides “completely off her rocker”? Although this type of woman is becoming something of an endangered species nowadays, there are still a precious few in existence. This rare outlier is best … Continue reading Types of Moms ~ Part 1: The “All-In Gambler”
A mother has just been born... What type of mom will she become? What will her goals be? What types of things will she value? What will she prioritize? Will her journey be happy and fulfilling? Will the path be fairly smooth and clear or riddled with pitfalls and dead ends? Will all of her … Continue reading Types of Moms ~ Introduction: Posing the Questions
Our world is full of color. Everywhere you look, any hour of the day, an infinite array of reds, yellows, blues, and every mixture in between bursts into our vision. Sometimes vibrant neons assault us; other times, we are snuggled by muted pastels.Color saturation in our daily lives can easily be taken for granted. After … Continue reading Why Can’t He See Me?
Imagine a time when you felt unsafe, in pain, trapped, scared, or helpless. What happened within your mind? What physical symptoms surfaced? Clammy palms? Pounding heart? Feeling like you wanted to scream? Feeling like you needed to escape? I know, it is not fun to force yourself to relive unpleasant feelings such as these. However, … Continue reading Motherhood PTSD
Plummeting birth rates. The correct term is “child-free,” not “child-less.” Daycare centers are outrageously priced and yet bursting at the seams. Frazzled moms. Oblivious husbands. Strained marriages. All work and no play. It seems that these are the statements that sum up what “family” has come to mean in today's society. How have the words … Continue reading The Motherhood Conundrum
What do you imagine when you hear the word “vacation”? Imagine your next one. Where will you go? What will you spend your time doing? Feeling adventurous? Try challenging mountain hikes or participating in a tough-mudder! Prefer relaxation? Schedule a spa getaway and pamper yourself with yoga and massages! How about those who enjoy experiencing … Continue reading Vacations: Why and How Most Moms Never Have One
For those of you who think this will be a post about finances, I hate to disappoint, but it is most certainly not. However, I must begin by clearly defining and explaining the term of the day prior to jumping into my main point. That being said, with no further ado, let’s kick this off … Continue reading Front-Loader, not Free-Loader
Pieces to Peace 