It has been established in Part 4 that there is no clear winner in the battle between types of moms when it comes to having a ‘til-death-do-us-part marriage. Also, I clarified my reasoning as to why I have chosen to couple “lifetime marriage” with “life-fulfillment.” Now, with all of that behind us, it is time … Continue reading Types of Moms ~ Part 5: The Altar of Parenthood
You may have noticed that I have refused to exert any effort into discussing the “I Could Care Less” mom type; for example, those who neither work outside the home nor give their all at home with the kids, those who are downright lazy, or those who are neglectful of or abusive towards their children. … Continue reading Types of Moms ~ Part 4: Who Wins?
The previous post, Types of Moms ~ Part 2, discussed in detail the harsh realities that all working moms are faced with each and every day. In brief, working moms undoubtedly take on more of the unpaid labor of household management and childcare in a dual-income household, setting her up for burnout and an increase … Continue reading Types of Moms ~ Part 3: The “Work is My Passion,” the “My Kids Drive Me Crazy,” and the “Lover of Money and Status”
In Types of Moms ~ Part 1, the “All-In Gambler” type was discussed. In a nutshell, this is the mom that takes on the gargantuan task of being the central stabilizing pillar of support within the family unit. She accomplishes all of the unpaid child-rearing/default parent duties and household manager tasks that exist within the … Continue reading Types of Moms ~ Part 2: The “Just Trying to Make Ends Meet” and the “Bet-Hedger”
What is the best description of the mental state of a woman who chooses to focus on her household and family after having children, besides “completely off her rocker”? Although this type of woman is becoming something of an endangered species nowadays, there are still a precious few in existence. This rare outlier is best … Continue reading Types of Moms ~ Part 1: The “All-In Gambler”
A mother has just been born... What type of mom will she become? What will her goals be? What types of things will she value? What will she prioritize? Will her journey be happy and fulfilling? Will the path be fairly smooth and clear or riddled with pitfalls and dead ends? Will all of her … Continue reading Types of Moms ~ Introduction: Posing the Questions
Sometimes, the person you know inside and out can still surprise you. For example, I was left speechless by my husband of 23 years when he said some precious words to me the other day:“Your wrinkles will be our memories. I will love and treasure them all.”I was awestruck by his choice of words at … Continue reading Wrinkles are Memories that Bond
Our world is full of color. Everywhere you look, any hour of the day, an infinite array of reds, yellows, blues, and every mixture in between bursts into our vision. Sometimes vibrant neons assault us; other times, we are snuggled by muted pastels.Color saturation in our daily lives can easily be taken for granted. After … Continue reading Why Can’t He See Me?
After having posted The Flip/Flop Challenge, I felt that a follow-up was needed. In the original post, I discovered that I had neglected to address one major aspect of the challenge. Here, in The Flip/Flop Challenge: Part 2, I will cover the remaining part.Many times, after the honeymoon phase of a relationship has ended, a … Continue reading The Flip/Flop Challenge…Continued
You have heard people speak of them. Husbands swear they know of one at work. Wives affirm that they caught sight of one at the grocery store. Dissatisfied husbands and wives everywhere want so badly to believe that this creature truly exists. Therefore, it must be real! It must exist! The Rainbow Unicorn! That mythical … Continue reading On the Hunt for the Mythical Rainbow Unicorn
Plummeting birth rates. The correct term is “child-free,” not “child-less.” Daycare centers are outrageously priced and yet bursting at the seams. Frazzled moms. Oblivious husbands. Strained marriages. All work and no play. It seems that these are the statements that sum up what “family” has come to mean in today's society. How have the words … Continue reading The Motherhood Conundrum
What do you imagine when you hear the word “vacation”? Imagine your next one. Where will you go? What will you spend your time doing? Feeling adventurous? Try challenging mountain hikes or participating in a tough-mudder! Prefer relaxation? Schedule a spa getaway and pamper yourself with yoga and massages! How about those who enjoy experiencing … Continue reading Vacations: Why and How Most Moms Never Have One
I created this a few years ago in response to my husband's repeated inability to comprehend the amount of unpaid work that is required to simply keep a household running day-in and day-out. It also puts a dollar amount (a very conservative dollar amount estimate, I might add) on what all my labor would have … Continue reading Household Manager Duties and Pay
For those of you who think this will be a post about finances, I hate to disappoint, but it is most certainly not. However, I must begin by clearly defining and explaining the term of the day prior to jumping into my main point. That being said, with no further ado, let’s kick this off … Continue reading Front-Loader, not Free-Loader
Every marriage has its problems. Happily, most of these are quite normal and common and are resolvable with love, dedication, hard work, and patience. However, there are some issues that cause such unspeakable wreckage that the marriage is barely salvageable. One of these home-wrecking examples is, of course, infidelity. Having survived and rebuilt my marriage … Continue reading To Salvage or Not to Salvage…
You would probably never expect to join the words “marriage” and “battlefield” in the same sentence and expect that sentence to have a positive spin to it. However, it can be done, and quite easily! When each of the marriage partners are on the battlefield, but as allies instead of enemies, working together as a … Continue reading What’s the Game Plan?
CONTRACT FOR DOG OWNERSHIP We, the undersigned: ___________________________________ (Shareholder and Director, AKA: Parent who desires the dog) ___________________________________ (Shareholder #1, AKA: child #1 who desires the dog) ___________________________________ (Shareholder #2, AKA: child #2 who desires the dog) do solemnly declare that, from this day forward, I willingly and knowingly relinquish the following in the interests … Continue reading Considering Dog Adoption…?
I'm cringing just a bit because I have to tell you this "amazing" broccoli casserole recipe...you'll see why I'm cringing, as soon as I tell you how it is made. It is a stereotypically American recipe, in the worst stereotypical way possible. Ok, I hope I have prepared you enough for what follows, but you … Continue reading Some Traditions Deserve to be Discarded
Pieces to Peace 